The two “main characters” in the story fall in love – Photo: FBNV
“Last night there was a storm at Hang’s house,” Ms. Hang Bui in Hanoi shared on her personal page. When her post about her mother-in-law in a group garnered 20,000 likes and 640 comments, her phone went “freezing”. Looking at the message list, she was also “stuck” because she didn’t know how to reply to everyone.
The source started with the story she shared “mother-in-law has a boyfriend”. Hang has been Ha’s mother’s bride for 15 years. When his eldest son was 5 months old (about 14 years ago), his father-in-law died after a long treatment for cancer. The lost mother-in-law has no other partner, no intention of finding a new “someone”.
every age needs love and sharing
In the 3-4 years after his father-in-law’s death, Hang Jin saw his mother’s life, although she had children and grandchildren, but she still had some closed features. The kids are busy, they go to school, so the whole family can only meet at dinner time and have a little chat.
Because of his love for his mother, he later became a “famous” person in the neighborhood when he often tried to find a husband for his mother when he visited his uncle: “Do you still have a wife ?”, or “Do you still have a wife?” Do you have someone, introduce yourself? With “…” for your mom
Hang said that he dreams of taking his parents on a trip to many places. The whole family also took two driving trips across Vietnam. She is happy when visiting her grandchildren, but as her children are grown, they want to give experiences to their children instead of going on vacations like before, but such trips are too much for the elderly.
Therefore, she often encourages her mother-in-law to buy a tour to participate in holiday trips with grandparents of the same age, but her mother refuses every time. Deep down, she understands that her mother-in-law is somewhat “kind” when the other grandparents are couples and her mother is single.
But when she did not have time to “match”, her mother-in-law had a “boyfriend” of the same age. His mother-in-law’s friend is uncle’s neighbor, his wife has been dead for 5 years and his two sons live in another city, he lives alone in Hanoi.
The relationship started in 2022 and in March 2023, according to him, both the families had a casual dinner. The day my uncle made his debut, there were flowers, cakes, ancestral altars, new beds and cabinets…
“Seeing the bright smiles of grandmothers and grandfathers amidst the blessings of friends and children, I feel my heart sinking, rejoicing and worrying. I have enough time to enjoy the slow, leisurely May I live till then. I hope there will be happy days for my mother,” he wrote. hang.
And just like her dream, a dream for herself, to have a house by the sea, to live there, to go to the market in the morning… Her mother-in-law has made trips to Nha Trang, Phu Quoc, like that. Same age friends come to visit, spend memorable time together, share, care, take care…
Hang Jin is moved to see her mother and uncle always glowing and perfect.
“Kids, please share with parents in a new way”
According to marriage and family counselor Ms. Tam Xuan, she recently fell ill and had to undergo surgery at the hospital. Those days were not childless, they were very busy with work, I said “I take a day off to take care of my mother” and went to sleep with my mother in the hospital for one night but This couldn’t stay for long, I understand. feel for the child.
“In those days, my husband was worried, caring and worrying, yet being a child taking care of his father is not as good as his grandmother taking care of him,” Ms. Xuan said.
Ms. Xuan also highly appreciates Hang’s family’s children’s way of working, which is to support and share when parents have their own happiness at any age, caring for a spouse is also necessary. “This could be a precedent in similar stories,” Ms Juan said.
At the end of this story, in the past few days, Hang Jin’s story has attracted a lot of attention, but all netizens think that this is a positive story, and hope to spread it to everyone.
I want to marry my father…
