Who does not want a happy marriage, but sometimes just because of a few small mistakes in daily life that becomes far away.
Don’t think that just getting married is sure to secure a ticket to a happy, lifelong marriage together. Also do not think that you have no mistakes, faithful husband loves his wife, both sides will always be happy. In this world, there are stories and problems that happen in your married life that you can’t even anticipate. It can lead to a broken or unhappy marriage.
It is not both arguing or being unfaithful that conflicts arise. In daily communication life, there are countless reasons for the two sides’ feelings to gradually diminish and then disappear. So in your daily life, you need to pay attention to the following 3 things to keep your marriage good.
1. Are you receptive to the words your partner says?
Many times, the biggest reason why couples fight is that they always feel that the other person doesn’t care about them. For example, asking her husband to go out and pick up a trash bag, he turns his head and forgets. Husband went to work as a wife to buy things, he also forgot. Not to mention some things that you say to the other person without paying attention at all. Over time, it can make people feel left out and assume that their partner no longer cares.
In fact, those are unconscious, unintentional behaviors. Therefore, husband and wife should pay more attention to each other’s words in daily life. If you can’t remember the instructions, write them down on your phone. You should also look more closely to see if your partner has a certain desire or interest in something. A surprise like that gift will surely make your partner feel extremely excited and the feelings of both sides will be cultivated more.
2. Have you reminded each other of your parents’ birthdays or special holidays?
Regardless of whether life is fun or not, you should show thoughtful concern for your partner’s family. For example, when the parents-in-law, the parents-in-law is about to have a birthday, celebrate with the other party and buy gifts.
When the weather gets colder or hotter, you should remind your parents to pay more attention. Showing interest in your partner’s family is also a way to show your love. If you care, love deeply, respect, you will remember those things. Surely your spouse will be in a good mood when he sees you paying attention to their whole family. There’s even a little bit of gratitude in it. It is an important part of bonding between the two of us that we sometimes take for granted.
Many wives think that when they get married, they only care about their husbands, not the whole husband’s family. So if you’re interested, just pay attention to each of them. In fact, that thinking is extremely wrong. If you don’t have a family, how can you have your husband? He cares about his family, you also show care, that’s the companionship that the couple has for each other. Try to make your relationship better.
3. When your partner’s mood is not good, do you show concern or not?
Everyone inevitably has moments of depression and emotions sometimes. When something unexpected happens, who can be happy. Those things will be shown right on their faces. Therefore, you should also be more observant when considering what happens to your spouse.
Whether your partner is happy, facial expressions and mood will speak for it. At those times, you should sit down to ask and confide what the problem is.
Ideally, every day you should spend a certain amount of time before going to bed to communicate and exchange what happened today. The couple can freely confide and express their feelings. It also strengthens the relationship between the two sides. Both you and your partner feel loved and cared for. This is very important in family relationships