The educational role of parents is very important in the development of children. According to recently published research, “visionary” parents often say the following sentences to their children from an early age.
1. “We are all born equal, we must respect others at all times”
Everyone has different family circumstances, living environment and work. But this does not mean that those born and raised in rich conditions are in a higher position, having the right to look down on others; and the poor are always inferior, not respected.
First of all, parents need to teach their children to treat everyone equally. (Illustration)
Parents also need to teach their children that, not everyone who looks flashy or shiny on the outside is respected; and those who are workers are despised. Parents need to teach their children not to discriminate, to be fair to everyone. Teach children to respect everyone, whether young or old, male or female, doing mental or physical work. Because only those who truly respect others deserve to receive respect in return.
2. “Learning is not for parents, teachers, but for children”
When entering puberty, many children become rebellious, leading to neglect in school. Therefore, as soon as children start school, parents need to gently advise: “Learning is not for parents and teachers, but for children.”
Many children always feel that they are learning because of their parents and teachers, leading to an uncomfortable spirit, always sluggish and depressed. But children never think that whether they study well or not well has nothing to do with parents and teachers. If they study well, children themselves will have a favorable job, career advancement, not parents or teachers.
Therefore, parents need to help their children understand the importance of learning for the future. Thus, children will have the right mindset, actively learn and practice without much reminders.
Learning is not for parents, teachers but for each person himself. (Illustration)
3. “Each of us must learn to accept failure and grow from failure”
Everyone’s life is not always “smooth sailing”. In life, there are always difficulties, challenges, even painful stumbles. As a parent, you need to teach your child to accept failure and grow from failure quickly.
The most important thing is that after failure, each of us looks at things in a positive way, considers it a lesson learned and does not give up. Parents need to teach their children to accept failure early to train their will and spirit. If children don’t understand this, when they encounter failure, they will see it as a terrible thing and do not want to try to overcome it. Negative actions will ruin a child’s life quickly.
Parents need to teach their children to accept failure early to train their will and spirit. (Illustration)
4. “Do the right things at the right age so you won’t have any regrets”
When children enter puberty, parents are worried about their children developing feelings for the opposite sex, leading to neglect in school. However, as long as children behave properly under the full knowledge of their parents, there will be no serious problems. The first vibrations of life will become beautiful memories of children when they grow up.
Therefore, when seeing that their children like friends of the opposite sex, parents should not be too worried and bewildered. Equip children with good knowledge, guide them to do the right things, age-appropriate to avoid regrets later. However, it is still important to put learning first.
5. “You need to take responsibility for your choices”
Some children always feel that they are young and need to be surrounded and protected. Children think that even if they make a mistake, it is not a serious problem, there are still many opportunities to do it again. However, how many opportunities come in life? There are things that only come once, if you do not know how to take the opportunity to do it, you will regret it later.
Therefore, as soon as children have awareness, parents need to guide their children to take responsibility for their own choices. When children become reliable, responsible people, children will be respected and admired by everyone around them and have a high chance of success in the future.