Parents are always the companions of children – Illustration: DUTY PHAN
Being friends with your child to listen to the truth you say, is extremely difficult to say but to do anywhere.
Befriend me, not easy
Parents have to adjust a lot of habits, ways of thinking, every little thing like sitting – standing at child’s eye level when talking, listening to children’s opinions and choices before making decisions, allowing children to trial and error…
What will you do with an 8-year-old child who always likes to take care of other people’s business, spend money, and want to have an opinion on everything? I see many people annoyed, annoyed with this quickness, enthusiasm. People shouted, people complained, of course, they also expressed their gratitude to me in a perfunctory way.
There are children who often tell stories at school, telling all kinds of stories that their mother doesn’t like. And adults interrupt the conversation or grumpy superficially “What’s the point of that!” that sad! There are children who really want to cry in the safety of their parents’ arms, but this I just tell you or journal.
The feelings grow bigger
I used to be beaten, scolded, I kept warm memories in my heart. I found myself being treated unfairly, despised in my own home. The words from my loved ones have been imprinted in my mind and emotions. One thing is that I am useless, I am ugly…
I remember all the things (I consider cruel) to me, I crave praise like other children but I don’t say it and shrink myself even more. Somehow, when I was spanked and scolded unreasonably, I could still see that my mother loved me. Thanks to that, I overcame the hurt and pain in my thoughts to one day look back on my own past.
My cousin, a 27-year-old man, used all his courage to write to her to express his difficult thoughts and feelings after 5 months of separation.
When I received your letter, I cried because I was grateful that you passed 20 drafts to be able to speak your mind. And I continued to write the first letter to my father to talk about everything quiet with him.
If you find it difficult to talk to each other, you can simply start with a note. For children, a smiley face is enough for a beloved child to understand that parents are trying to connect and listen to their child.
Hugs, holding hands or sitting next to each other as a way to charge the battery, a way to dispel fatigue for both parents and children. When adults are not afraid to admit their mistakes, ready to apologize to others, children will also be more open, live more honestly, learn to admit mistakes, correct and live. open-heart more.
According to the World Health Organization (WHO), one person commits suicide every 40 seconds, young people are more likely to commit suicide than the elderly, and an average of 3,000 adolescents die by suicide every day.
According to a study by the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF), about 8-29% of adolescents in Vietnam suffer from mental health diseases, especially depressive disorders, with a high common in the 3-8% range.